Hi friends! This audio companion was written out before it was recorded, which is a deviation from the ones I’ve recorded recently. As such, I’ve posted the written version in case you want to read along. There may be a few changes I made in the moment, but you’ll get the gist. Thanks for being here!
One of the things I feel very passionate about in recent years is that more people should be selfish in their relationships. Now, this advice doesn’t apply to everyone. Some people are incredibly selfish already, and those people could probably chill a bit and make the world a better place in the process.
This bit of counsel is specifically for people who tend to over-give in their relationships, which I know for a fact applies to a lot of people listening to this audio companion. So, first things first. How do you know if you should be internalizing my case for bringing more of an “all about me” mentality to your relationships with others?
Here are a few examples of the things too-selfless people do in relationships:
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